The evolving meaning of this trip.
This trip is an overview. We are skimming America to find the places we'd like to see again. It is not, in itself, an end. Nor is it even a means to an end. It is a brief introduction to the rest of our lives. After this trip, how can we settle down without at least even the thought that we are denying ourselves the very instinct of human beings, to explore?
We have mentally bookmarked a thousand or more places to visit again, to spend days learning and understanding. Places where the culture intrigued us, even begged us to experience it. Mountains left untouched. Deserts crossed but not truly discovered. Streams and lakes, trails and roads spider-webbing their way across valleys and towns lie waiting for the rest of our lifetimes. Not just for us, but for everyone. But everyone grinds their lives away at a job, returning home too weary to even care, to tired to even know they're miserable. Do it now.
This trip is not an opportunity of a lifetime. This trip is carelessly thrown together by three people who have never done this before. All planning is out the window, all schedules are meaningless. What matters is the experience. What matters is living it. What matters most, however, is doing it again and again.
We have become a nation of consumers where we used to be a nation of do-ers. We sit on our big couches in our big houses after slaving away just to make enough money to live our consumer lifestyle. This kills every opportunity to explore the world outside of our little bubble. If we would only simplify our lives. Focus on what is important. We could understand how meaningless all this buying and spending and so-called living is. And that, even if you don't see the world through travel, is what will save us all.
Simplify and deny the learned tendency to consume. If this trip has taught us anything, it is that. It's up to us to not only remember it, but to teach it as well.
We are a family, each having a specific role, even if it's undefined and seemingly unimportant. It's not the traditional sense of family, but when did that ever matter? When I talk of "us" it's like talking about one person. Together, we've created this group consciousness. We haven't lost any of our individuality, but have taken all three and bound them together with travel and living in a car for five weeks. I was worried that we may fight, not mesh and not get along. The opposite is true. We left Pennsylvania as three different people exploring America for three different reasons and have found one thing that keeps us going: each other.





